Episodes

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In this engaging conversation, Gene X. Christian and Congruency Matters explore various themes surrounding podcasting, authenticity in conversations, the impact of digital consumption on personal relationships, and the importance of understanding privilege and empathy.
They reflect on their experiences with feedback, learning from failure, and the dynamics of social media, all while emphasizing the value of purposeful practice and engaging with diverse perspectives. In this conversation, Gene X. Christian discusses various themes surrounding content creation, monetization, and the importance of non-religious stories. He reflects on the public perception of the U.S. from an outsider's perspective, emphasizing the hope that can arise from collective action and protests.
The dialogue also touches on the need to redefine the American dream and the role of anecdotal evidence in understanding societal issues.

Friday Sep 19, 2025
Friday Sep 19, 2025
Gene X. Christian shares his journey from growing up in a Southern Baptist household to navigating the complexities of faith, indoctrination, and personal beliefs. He discusses the impact of his upbringing, the influence of music, the challenges of purity culture, and the struggles of parenting in a religious context.
Gene reflects on significant life events, including the loss of his mother and the effects of the pandemic on his faith, ultimately leading to a reevaluation of his beliefs and practices. In this conversation, Gene shares his journey of navigating family dynamics, particularly in relation to his father's struggle with Alzheimer's, and how it led him to question his faith.
He discusses the emotional toll of pretending to believe, the realization of religious constructs, and the peace he found in identifying as an atheist. The dialogue explores the importance of self-reflection, the impact of historical context on belief, and the role of institutions in shaping faith.
Ultimately, it emphasizes the need for open discussions about belief and encourages listeners to seek truth, and not what they've been feed by others.
Find Gene:
- Threads: https://www.threads.com/@genexchristian
- Web: https://www.genexchristian.com

Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
Tuesday Sep 16, 2025
This episode explores the personal journeys of Gene and Jacob as they navigate their experiences with religion, particularly focusing on Jacob's upbringing in the Bible Missionary Church and Gene's Southern Baptist background.
They discuss the process of deconstruction of beliefs, the characteristics of cult-like religions, and the impact of historical context on religious texts. The dialogue also touches on personal spiritual experiences, including Jacob's shamanic initiation, and the significance of the Dead Sea Scrolls in understanding the Bible's curation.
In this conversation, Gene X. Christian and Jacob Nordby explore a range of topics from the spectrum of belief systems, including atheism and spirituality, to the role of psychedelics in personal growth. They delve into the implications of original sin and question its relevance in modern Christianity.
The discussion also touches on existential questions about the nature of existence and the search for meaning in life, emphasizing the importance of exploration and curiosity.
Find Jacob:
- Threads: https://www.threads.com/@jacobnordby
- Jacob's work: https://shor.by/jacobnordby

Friday Sep 12, 2025
Friday Sep 12, 2025
This conversation explores the personal journey of Sam, who shares his experiences with cooking, photography, and his transition from belief to atheism. The discussion delves into family dynamics, particularly the contrasting beliefs of his parents, and how these shaped his understanding of faith.
Sam reflects on the challenges of navigating relationships with family members who hold different beliefs, especially in the context of grief and loss. The conversation also touches on the importance of open dialogue about beliefs and the impact of personal experiences on one's worldview.
As Sam looks forward to future travels and personal growth, he emphasizes the value of seeking truth and understanding in a complex world.
Find Sam:
- Threads: https://www.threads.com/@aamuelsambrose
Also Mentioned:
- The God Delusion
- The Greatest Show on Earth
- NonStampCollector:
Noah's Ark Part 1
Noah's Ark Part 2

Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Tuesday Sep 09, 2025
Kate shares her journey from a strict religious upbringing to her current views on faith, fitness, and family. She discusses her experiences with modesty culture, the impact of patriarchy, and the struggles of leaving a high-control church environment.
Gene and Kate discuss her mental health journey, the challenges of parenting, and her aspirations for political engagement. The conversation highlights the importance of questioning beliefs and the complexities of navigating personal identity in the context of religious indoctrination.
Find Kate:
- Threads: https://www.threads.com/@klanger5
Mentioned:
Iron and The Soul by Henry Rollins

Friday Sep 05, 2025
Friday Sep 05, 2025
Gene X. Christian and Deconstruction Zone explore the journey of deconstruction from a religious upbringing to personal beliefs. They discuss the impact of early influences, experiences in seminary, and the pivotal moments that led to a transformation in belief systems.
The conversation delves into the challenges faced during this journey, including an arrest that served as a catalyst for change, and the realization of a new identity beyond traditional religious frameworks.
In this conversation, the speakers delve into the themes of deconstruction from faith, the implications of mortality, and the importance of critical thinking. They explore the challenges faced when leaving religious beliefs, the impact on personal relationships, and the journey towards establishing an online presence to foster discussions.
The dialogue also touches on the evolution of argumentation in debates, interpretations of biblical texts, and future endeavors in scholarly dialogues and publications.
Justin's story (YouTube): Why I Left Christianity | From Seminary To The Cemetery
Find Deconstruction Zone:
YouTube Debate Clips: youtube.com/@dzdebates
Join as a Member: youtube.com/@Deconstruction_Zone/join
TikTok: tiktok.com/@deconstruction.zone
Discord: tinyurl.com/dzdiscord
Twitch: twitch.tv/deconstructionzone_
Instagram: instagram.com/deconstruction_zone
Clapper: clapperapp.com/Justin_DZ
Patreon: patreon.com/Deconstruction_Zone

Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Tuesday Sep 02, 2025
Gene X. Christian reflects on his experience attending a Linkin Park concert, and reflects on the emotional impact of change both in music and personal relationships.
The conversation delves into themes of loss, friendship, and the necessity of starting anew in the face of change.
Video: "We Tested 1-Star Hotels" by Rhett & Link's Wonderhole

Friday Aug 29, 2025
Friday Aug 29, 2025
Andrew the Apostate shares his journey from a diverse Christian upbringing to questioning and ultimately leaving his faith. The discussion covers his experiences with Christian rock music, church scandals, and the impact of Dungeons and Dragons on his beliefs.
Andrew reflects on his time in Bible college, the challenges of teaching evolution, and the complexities of navigating family dynamics after coming out as an atheist. The conversation also delves into historical injustices, the role of God in suffering, and the intersection of faith and politics, culminating in a sense of freedom and relief as Andrew embraces a new identity.
Andrew and Gene X. Christian explore the complexities of family dynamics, particularly in the context of trauma and secrets. They discuss the impact of COVID-19 on family relationships, the intersection of religion and mental health, and the challenges of deconversion.
The conversation also delves into the controversial topic of slavery in the Bible, examining how interpretations have evolved over time. Finally, they emphasize the importance of building community and mutual support outside of traditional religious structures.
Find Andrew the Apostate:
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@andrew_the_apostate
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrew_the_apostate
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@andrewtheapostate

Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Tuesday Aug 26, 2025
Gene X. Christian and Clara Ritger explore the profound impact of trauma on health and the transformative power of meditation. Clara shares her personal journey from a career in documentary filmmaking to becoming a trauma-informed meditation teacher, emphasizing the importance of mindfulness and self-care in healing.
They discuss the challenges of navigating the medical system, the connection between mental and physical health, and the necessity of integrating Eastern and Western approaches to wellness.
The conversation highlights the significance of gratitude, awareness, and the choices we make in our daily lives to foster healing and well-being.
Find Clara Ritger:
Newsletter: http://adventuretoawaken.com/
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@clararitger
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clararitger
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Friday Aug 22, 2025
Friday Aug 22, 2025
Gene Christian and Lacey Bond, intimacy and relationship coach, explore the complexities of purity culture, personal deconstruction journeys, and the impact of evangelical beliefs on sexuality and relationships. They share personal stories, discuss the influence of media like 'The Boys', and critique the ideologies surrounding virginity and sexual experience. The dialogue also touches on the historical context of Puritanism and its lasting effects on contemporary beliefs about sex and morality.
In this conversation, Lacey Bond and Gene Christian explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the sources of conflict such as money, sex, and children. They discuss the pervasive shame surrounding sexuality, especially in the context of purity culture, and how it leads to sexual dysfunction and difficulties in communication.
Lacey emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the potential of kink as a healing framework. They also highlight the need for comprehensive sexual education to combat the damaging effects of purity culture and promote healthy relationships based on consent and communication.
Find Lacey Bond:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacylacey/
Threads: https://www.threads.com/@intimacylacey
Website: https://www.intimacylacey.com/







